Monday, June 10, 2013

Season Finale June 16th - and the start of a new Park-King series!

We call this time in our life a "Season Finale" but also the start of a new upcoming "Park-King Series." Coming soon to a Theatre (I mean, Church community) near you. 
Over the past year, God has given us a heart for mobilizing and equipping Canadian church communities and their families to thrive in caring for vulnerable children through adoption and foster care. Through God’s guidance, and while we are in process of adopting children into our family as well, we are taking the next steps in research and development to pursue what our hearts have been awakened to. 

While we are still discovering what exactly this all entails, we do know it will involve taking part in a movement across Canada, with vulnerable children, families, churches, organizations, and government. We do know that God has been at work within us every step of the way, so to this end, we are just simply taking another step of faith. The "Producer" has been good to us, giving us just enough info, the right people and resources for now, and we are accepting the new roles.
As such, Harold has resigned from his role as Pastor, effective June 16. It was not an easy decision, although it was an obvious one for us that we both knew was right. We will miss our home church of 8.5 years, which has been a huge blessing to us all. We will still be living in Winnipeg, but are making intentional steps in clearing our slate for this next season. Can't do both. So to all our Southlanders out there, we love you and will be cheering for you as you run the race marked out for you.
It was 8 years ago that we (Harold and Wendi) covenanted before God in marriage, with a wedding text found in Joshua 24:15 “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Service is a word of action, implying the fulfilling of someone else’s will. As our family seeks to serve God, we have been brought to the realization that God is calling us on from Southlands Community Church to a new ministry. 
We'll keep you posted for each new episode, officially starting June 17th. 
For those of you who like the spoilers, read below... The rest of you, check in with us next week for more :) 

Episode 1: Preparing for a new arrival (June 17)
Episode 2: It's a _______! (OK, can't spoil this one totally, check in June 24)
Episode 3: Exploring Orphan Care in Canada's Wild Wild West (July)

Thank you to all for taking interest in this blog and investing in us through encouragement and prayer. We'd love to hear from you, let us know how we can do the same for you.  

(Here is our self-made fashionista Mikhala taking her Mommy for a walk.)
 


Friday, May 24, 2013

What goes on in Nashville does NOT stay in Nashville...

Alas, my fingers have been given the task of translating our many thoughts and events that have transpired over this past month. For those that prefer a quick summary (I understand), it goes as follows:

"God is good and up to something good, all the time! and we specifically experienced this these past weeks. Thanks for checking in."

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Now, for the rest of you (you know who you are :), you've been asking for the juice - details, plans, thoughts, what makes us tick, etc. And its a good thing you ask, because what God has put on our hearts may just splash onto yours in a contagious sort of way. (Disclaimer: Don't say I didn't warn you. Oh, it may not be love at first sight, but it may grow on you like it did ours.)

There is too much to share for one blog entry, so may this be the appetizer for the main course and dessert to come. Like any gourmet meal, its better if you are the one eating it than reading about it, but don't let that stop you from salavating and joining in in some way. There is always room for more.

After dropping off the kiddos at Aunty Buttaboo's (the affectionate name given for my sister Doralin), Harold and I made our 21 hour trek down to Nashville, Tennessee to attend a week of Global Leadership Forum and Summit 9, put on by CAFO (Christian Alliance for Orphans). I'll have to tell you sometime of our funny accommodations story! But that is for another blog entry, lol. To be honest, we were not exactly sure what to expect in Nashville, we just both knew deep down this is where we needed to be. Aside from the promising selection of sessions and guest speakers listed, for all we knew we were entering into some kind of event I could only imagine being like a homeschooling convention with idealist Christianese extremists that collected kids (we didn't know! and don't be offended homeschoolers - your conventions are probably better than what flashes through my mind. I digress.). What awaited us in Nashville was anything but wierd. The words inspiring, redemptive, Spirit lead, transparency and humility come to mind.

First off, CAFO did an extremely good job in facilitating a fantastic and organized event. The first two days were spent with about 70 ordinary, friendly, humble but powerful God-seeking leaders from 25 different countries. The following days were spend with over 2,500 people at the Summit event. We came in as the two Canadians, but left as a brother and sister of a larger global family whom we continue to be in communication with.


(Members of the Global Leadership Forum)

Do you remember us telling you in our first blog entry about God speaking to us in Korea while attending an Orphan Sunday church service? Well, who knew that the Zambian pastor Billy sitting next to us started Orphan Sunday as his local response to God wanting him to mobilize his church. Like fire starting from an ember, it then spread throughout other African countries and around the world. It took us going to Korea for us to catch that Zambian flame and bring it back to Canada with us. The world is so small. And who knew that what God had previously been impressing on our hearts, like the word "movement" which had no context for our Canadian experience, would be the main topic of our Global Leadership forum. We did not even know what God exactly meant by that, as it was not talked about in our circles regarding caring for vulnerable children, yet here we were being instructed very practically on our next steps, like they were eavesdropping in our conversations with God. We were inspired by stories of our new friends around the tables who are already involved in this powerful movement in other unassuming places around the world. It became quite evident that this "movement" went beyond the care of orphans in crisis (which remains our unifying mandate) but it has become the revival of the worldwide Church in seeking the heart of Abba Father.


                                                     (Pastor Billy from Zambia)

Huh? Does this orphan care movement still sound foreign to you? Well, if you are reading it from a Canadian context like ours, it did to us as well even heading into Nashville. We did not know that what God had specifically put on our hearts was something that God already has been sweeping across nations in a powerful way in recent years. Canada, with the exceptions of pockets here and there, has yet to jump on board. This is not to say that its not gaining momentum, as we are discovering others across Canada who God is touching regarding this as well.

But caring for orphans is not a new phenomenon for the Christian church. It is an age-old mandate, an ancient practice seen throughout history. So why all this talk about movement? Is it a fad? The old mandate reinvented as a tactic to guilt believers into a cause? Is it an over-inflated heroic patronizing attempt of the Church to rescue the little orphaned damsels and princes in distress? Those are good questions. I wouldn't have written them if I did not also ask them myself. Yet in my quest for answers, in Scripture, in prayer, in my interactions with leaders around the world, in seeking to be informed and educated in the global orphan crisis, I cannot deny that God is awakening a sleepy consumer Church into outward action. This doesn't mean the Church has all the answer to the orphan crisis, but it's beautiful to see the global church on their knees seeking God for the answers and working together as a body and reaching out to governments, families, orphans, and organizations to humbly navigate the crisis together. Sounds like salt and light to me.

It seems to me, in my own Canadian experience of being church, we have conformed to the culture around us and allocated the crisis of vulnerable children for the government to deal with. I love how I can walk into any hospital and get care without a dime in my pocket, but do I love it so much that I forget to dress the wounds of my neighbour? Go to the hospital, I say, rather than give of my own bandaids or in critical situations, take them to the doctor and be with them. A foster care situation gone from bad to worse in a homicide? We may wag our fingers and say bad government. An adoption failed and child returned to the system? We may point our fingers to the family and say poor parenting or bad kid. A mother has her children apprehended? We may judge her for her addictions or boyfriend's control. Millions of children across the globe without parents? We may soothe our sorrow by flipping the channel, debating politics, pointing out our version of the root problem. But have any of these situations gripped the Canadian church into action? Not in the short-term photo-opp mission project sort of way, but in a way that sees that struggling parent as our neighbour, the global statistics of unparented children as our future children, the governments foster care crisis as an invitation for the church to get involved in raising the next generation with love, etc. All this to say, this global movement already in momentum, is not an invitation to indulge in guilt numbing projects or causes, but to taste and see that the Lord is good. He is doing great redemptive things through ordinary people who are awakened to the heart of God.

Before thinking of an orphan care movement as the newest Church's rescue operation, perhaps we must humbly recognize that we are the ones needing God's rescue from ourselves. From what I am observing in a global context, it seems like God is allowing the orphans also to minister to the churches; giving us opportunity to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge - that we may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God (Eph.3).

More to come, I promise: Including some more major adjustments in the Park family.

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Nashville here we come!

Must I start off this blog entry with its standard apologies for not posting more often, or can we skip this formality and get on with the good stuff?! lol. This is the way she rolls folks. Thanks to all our loyals who kindly remind me to keep on writing. To me blogging is like getting to that nice hot cup of coffee sanctuary of  quiet solitude, a rare privilege. My coffee times usually consists of warm gulps of it for caffeine purposes only as I juggle the demands of my two little monkeys and my beloved chimp. Alas I am back :)

So we are off to Nashville at the end of this month! God seems to be opening the door for Harold and I to attend Summit 9 put on by Christian Alliance for Orphans (CAFO). http://www.summit9.org

In our research for Harold's thesis, we have received a lot of favorable feedback from authors and leaders in the field of orphan care who have encouraged us to also participate with the 3000 predominantly American participants who will be attending the Summit. The sessions look absolutely fantastic, a feast of information and networking possibilities.

Since registering for the event we were also invited with a scholarship to participate in a two-day pre-summit Global Leadership Forum with other leaders from around the world to learn and discuss how to mobilize orphan care in our countries. Canadian churches have a long way to go in this area (likely 10 years behind our neighbours to the south) so we go with open hearts and minds to see where all these open doors lead.

This opportunity is only possible thanks to my sister and brother-in-law's generous willingness to care for our two kritters for the week, something we are extremely thankful for. Oh, and get this... I convinced Harold it would be a fabulous adventure if we took out all the back seats in our mini-mobile and camped out for the 20hr journey and stay there. He said yes. Not bad for a city-boy!

For those of you of the mountain-moving-hard-core praying type, we value and appreciate your prayers as we bushwack through this journey that God leads us into.

Sunday, February 24, 2013

God-Jam Style

We've all seen the music video of the Korean guy horsey-dancing and passionately singing his song "Gangnam Style." Harold and Kehlen do a pretty good impersonation, although they are much better looking I must admit. It's not every day that a Korean song becomes an all-time hit, which makes our kimchi-loving family stands taller when that song comes on. I'm wondering when "Menno Style" will hit the charts?! "Hey, saxy tonte..." But I digress. Oba!

Something new hit the charts in the Park home these past two weeks of me being home, and I must say it has become a hit. On our daily schedule, one favorite activity is posted "Worship Jam." I grab my guitar; Kehlen and Mikhala haul out their bin of instruments and we go nuts singing and dancing different songs for our Creator. "I think God must be pretty happy about that one!" Kehlen exclaims, out of breath, after an adrenaline pumping dance and clatter to the song 'Hallelujah'. "Let's do it again!"  

Mikhala, who is relegated to bells, continues in her off-beat percussion while Kehlen attempts (and I do say attempts) some kung-fu-hip-hop-break-dancing assortment.

Oh boy, and now for Twinkle Star... this time Mikhala belts out a heart-felt rendition of her favorite song, which we quickly deemed as worship because God made stars too. ABC's was a stretch, but we figured God uses letters to speak to us through the Bible.

In the end, does it matter?  God simply smiles at anything that reflects his goodness, which is all around us if we look for it. A joyful noise is beautiful in the ears of the beholder. He is our audience of One.

Oh, and just to keep it real... a whining or fighting noise is not so beautiful in the ears of their mother! This is also my reality at times. But in light of eternity, this season of life is my unique "Worship Jam" as a parent in preparation of the full concert in Heaven. Bring it on!


Monday, February 18, 2013

Baby Steps, Leaps of Faith

I know, I know... a true blogger must be one with writing frequent posts. Baby steps, sorry, I'll get there  :)

Actually, since my last post I have been taking huge leaps - leaps of faith, leaps of transition, leaps of new opportunities.

After a three week train vacation to BC to be with family in January (which was awesome!), I quickly immersed right back into a full 2 final weeks of work full of succession planning, a graduation for one of our programs, presenting at a two day seminar, cleaning up my office, meetings, emails, and tying up a few loose ends.

I realize that after 7 years in an ever evolving position, a job is never done, always on a continuum. What's done is done, what is not done has yet to be realized by those taking on this leadership. One might think that giving up "my baby" from palliative care to thriving future would be hard, but I couldn't be more at peace if I tried. God lead me into the mess, lead me through the trenches, lead me through to enjoy great progress. In it all, God has proven his faithfulness and continues to prove it as I move on. He continues to use the people in place there now, but I know my role there in leadership is done. Now my leap of faith to voluntary unemployment, or should I say, free labour, has just begun.

Well, today I don't do the morning-family-scramble-out-the-door routine, I don't have a meeting, nor do I answer the phone "Good Morning, Salvation Army, Wendi speaking..."

Ahhhh, these days, I let the kids sleep in while I soak in some morning devotions, I play with my kids, we make a new schedule for the day that entails outdoor play in the snow, making lunch together, make play dough creations, and imagine, I even do a few basic chores around the house before midnight (which used to be prime time to catch up with household stuff). I'm really getting into this new shtick  But just in case any uber-moms are getting excited that "I've crossed over", I haven't totally converted. Perhaps baby steps to uber-mom-ness? or perhaps I will just dance to the beat of my own drum? While I have embraced my era of driving a mini-van and going to family garage sales to find deals on kids stuff, I am now feeling the itch to get back into doing house renovations and have a few big things up my sleeve in regards to how I am hoping to participate in Harold's research project. I have now started taking Zumba Fitness, which is a lot of fun; am attending a family fitness program with my kids, and Kehlen and I will be starting Korean School / Taekwondo together this Saturday. My aim isn't to become super busy, but be active, live purposefully and embrace this short season of time that I have.

So regarding adoption... The anticipation is growing with time, and so far everything is lining up to move forward. No hitches.... yet :) We prepared a huge stack of documents through December and had it mailed in to our social worker the day we left for BC in early January. Wow, after working through the lengthy obligatory biography exercise (23 pages single spaced size 10 font later!) I feel I know my self better than ever before, lol. Actually, why didn't the government require me to do this when I was expecting our first biological child?! It would have done me good. Once all our references are in, we are next in line to have our home study, likely in a month's time. We know there are sibling groups available for adoption, but are awaiting the process of completing our dossier to get to the referral stage. Meanwhile we are making contact with referring agencies who work in that country to decide on the agency best fit. And we continue to pray for God's provision. On human terms, the process and associated costs could seem daunting, although God would never have put this on our hearts if he did not also have a plan to provide. God is good.